Kwabochwepheshe bazo zonke izinhlobo, ukubiza ingqungquthela kungaba uvivinyo olucindezelayo (ngokumangazayo). Ngokungafani nemihlangano yendabuko yobuso nobuso lapho ungathembela khona ngolimi lomzimba nezinye izinkomba ezibonakalayo ukusiza ekukhulumisaneni, impumelelo yakho ngokubiza ingqungquthela incike cishe ngokuphelele ekutheni uziphethe kahle kangakanani ocingweni. Uma uhola ukubiza ingqungquthela noma uhlanganyela engxoxweni yocingo, lokhu kunganezela ekucindezelekeni okuzwayo ukuqinisekisa ukuthi wonke amagama aphuma emlonyeni wakho aphelele. Kodwa ungesabi, ababiza ingqungquthela, ukukhathazeka ngokubiza ingqungquthela kuvamile kakhulu futhi kungabhekwana nakho ngokulandela lezi zinyathelo:
Ungamangali ngocingo lwakho lwenkomfa!
Ngisho noma uvame ukuba ngomunye walabo bantu “abahamba ngokugeleza”, ukulungiselela uhlaka oluphelele lwalokho ohlela ukukusho kusenesikhathi kungakusiza uzizwe ulungele futhi uqiniseka kakhudlwana lapho ujoyina ucingo lwengqungquthela . Uma ungumhlanganyeli, dala uhlu lwamaphuzu okuxoxa amahlanu kuya kwayishumi noma izimpendulo zemibuzo ocabanga ukuthi izophakanyiswa ngesikhathi socingo. Uma uhola ucingo, thatha izintambo kusenesikhathi ngokubukeza i-ajenda nabanye abashayela ucingo ekuqaleni kwengqungquthela yakho ukuze wonke umuntu azi ukulandelana kwezihloko okuzoxoxwa ngazo.
Izinto zihlukile uma ukhuluma neqembu labantu ngocingo. Nakuba inkulumo encane kanye nokubhuqa kungase kube kuhle ekunciphiseni isimo sengqondo nokwakha ubuhlobo phakathi kwemihlangano yobuso nobuso, amahlaya ngokuvamile awadlali kahle ngocingo. Ngabantu abaningi ocingweni abangakwazi ukubonana, amahlaya, nanoma yimuphi umuzwa wesikhathi samahlaya, angalahleka kalula. Ukuze ugweme noma yikuphi ukudideka noma ukungezwani okungase kube nzima okungase kube umphumela wehlaya elinesikhathi esibi, kungcono ukuthi unamathele embhalweni, ngomqondo ongokomfanekiso, futhi ugcine ingxoxo isesihlokweni ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Enye indlela yokunqoba ukukhathazeka ngocingo lwenkomfa ukuzijwayeza nokulungiselela ucingo lwakho olulandelayo kusengaphambili. Ukwenza ucingo lwenkomfa yokuzijwayeza nomngane noma osebenza naye kungcono kakhulu ukuze uzijwayeze inqubo yocingo lwenkomfa bese uzijwayeza lokho ohlela ukukusho ngocingo lwakho oluzayo. Uma ukwazi ubuciko bocingo lwenkomfa kuyinto onomuzwa wokuthi udinga ukuyisebenzela, ungase ufune ukucabanga ngokuqopha ucingo lwenkomfa . Ukuqopha ucingo akugcini nje ngokukunika ithuba lokulalela nokubukeza ucingo lwakho kamuva, kodwa kuqinisekisa ukuthi unerekhodi lakho konke okuxoxwe ngakho ngesikhathi socingo ukuze ubhekisele kukho esikhathini esizayo.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ubani ngakolunye uhlangothi, ekupheleni kosuku, ucingo lwengqungquthela luwucingo lwengqungquthela. Yize kuhlale kuwumqondo omuhle ukuzilungiselela ukuya kunoma yiluphi uhlobo lomhlangano, ukukhubeka igama noma amabili ngeke kube ukuphela komhlaba. Lungiselela amaphuzu akho okukhuluma, donsa umoya noma kabili, bese ubiza ngesikhathi esimisiwe. Khumbula: noma ngabe uhola ucingo noma uyisivakashi esimenyiwe, ubamba iqhaza engqungqutheleni ngoba ungumuntu okhaliphile, okwaziyo nokunokuthile okubalulekile onganikela ngakho.
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