Ukuziphatha kocingo lwenkomfa: Ngenkathi i imithetho engabhaliwe yokubiza ingqungquthela ngokuqinisekile akunzima ukukulandela, kunemikhuba embalwa yekholi yenkomfa embi okufanele uyiqaphele engashayela ozakwenu abafonayo amantongomane (noma bayakutshela noma cha). Nakuba enye yale ngqungquthela ebizwa ngokuthi cha-cha ingase ibukeke njengomqondo ojwayelekile (njengokushaya ucingo sekwephuzile kwenkomfa), ungase umangale ukuthi kaningi kangakanani eminye yale mikhuba emibi ingaphazamisa okuhlangenwe nakho okuphelele kocingo lwenkomfa yabo bonke abahililekile. Njengoba unyaka omusha ususondele, sicabange ukuthi sizokwabelana ngemikhuba yethu yezingcingo zenkomfa ezimbi eziphezulu.
1. Ukuletha umsindo engqungqutheleni
Wake waxoxa nabantu ocingweni lwenkomfa lapho omunye ofonayo engenela futhi kungazelelwe kuzwakale sengathi usesitolo sekhofi esiphithizelayo? Lapho ujoyina ingqungquthela, qaphela indawo ekuzungezile kanye nanoma yimuphi umsindo ongase ube nawo ocingweni. Uma kufanele ushaye ucingo usendaweni enomsindo, qiniseka ukuthi uthulisa okungenani ulayini wakho ngenkathi ungakhulumi ukuze ugcine umsindo wangemuva ubuncane.
2. USomlomo-uyishayela ucingo
Uma sikhuluma ngokuletha umsindo engqungqutheleni, asikho isizathu esikhulu somsindo, ukunanela, impendulo, kanye nekhwalithi yocingo enciphile iyonke kunamaspika. Nakuba siqaphela ukuthi izipikha ziwububi obudingekayo kwezinye izimo, ngokuvamile ziwumsuka wokuphazamiseka kwezingcingo zenkomfa. Ngokusekelwe kokuhlangenwe nakho okuhlangene kweThimba lethu Lokusekela Amakhasimende, elibhekana nezinkinga zenkomfa zekhwalithi yomsindo nsuku zonke, siluleka ngokuqinile ngokumelene nokusetshenziswa kwamaspika ngesikhathi socingo lwenkomfa ngaphandle kwalapho kudingekile ngempela.
3. Inkomfa ngenkathi iphazamisekile
Mhlawumbe uku-Starbucks noma ushayela ingane yakho ekhaya isuka esikoleni ngenkathi ilalele ucingo lwengqungquthela. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yini enye into oyenzayo, ngeke ukwazi ukunikeza ukunakwa kwakho okuphelele—kungakhathaliseki ukuthi unekhono kangakanani ekwenzeni izinto eziningi. Uma uhlela ukubamba iqhaza ocingweni lwenkomfa olubalulekile, zama ukulungisa uhlelo lwakho ukuze ukwazi ukushaya ucingo lwakho lwenkomfa—kanye nanoma ubani omunye obambe iqhaza kulo—ukwenze konke.
4. Ukushaya ucingo sekudlule isikhathi
Uke wazama ukunyonyoba ngokuthula kuze kube sekwephuzile ukuya emhlanganweni egunjini lenkomfa lasehhovisi ukuze ubingelelwe ukubukeka okuqinile kokungavunyelwa ozakwenu? Njengoba nje ungazama ukufika ngesikhathi somhlangano webhizinisi noma inkonzo yesonto yangeSonto (uma lokho kuyinto yakho), ngokuvamile kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ushayele ngesikhathi ukuze uthole ucingo lwenkomfa oluhleliwe. Ngaphezu kokuvulelwa noma yiziphi izimemezelo ezibalulekile nezethulo ezingase zenzeke ekuqaleni kocingo, ukushaya ngesikhathi kuqinisekisa ukuthi ukungena kwakho ocingweni lwengqungquthela akubangeli noma yisiphi isimemezelo samagama noma ukukhala okungase kuphazamise ucingo inqubekelaphambili.
Funda kabanzi Ngemikhuba Yokushaya Yenkomfa Emibi kanye Nemikhuba Engcono Kakhulu Yenkomfa
Usekelo Lwefoni Ebukhoma Ne-imeyili, Imibuzo Evame Ukubuzwa, nokuningi
Thola Ukusekelwa Kwenkomfa Lapha
Dala i-Akhawunti Yamahhala
